retorts

I pride myself on being adept at social graces, which is why I tend to hate them often because they are a dance, an art for which I have plentiful skill yet no honest desire if you will. In online dating and dating in general (and I am just addressing the negative here but most have been negative) I have had the pleasure of meeting some of the biggest hypocrites, con artist emotionally, mentally and truly socially challenged souls (which I think is the bottom line for online dating 9 times out of 10, it attracts people already at their last straw or only comfortable behind a keyboard which I thought I might identify with: the horror stories from these ventures alone is its own separate blog... and this is coming from me; ever the optimist, the silver lining hunter, the glass half full shiny happy people jingle man) This, like everything, is an observation, a generalization of my experiences over 3 years as a whole on and off take it as you will (I liken online dating to a huge flea market where everyone wants to trade but nobody wants to buy).

long story short the last encounter I had that made me throw in the towel, burn the towel, dig a hole and bury the towel alive. It was a head shaker and rather than rehash the hypocrisy here blow by blow because it is truly not only unbelievable (in the wtf realm not the actions category) but beyond rude, judgemental and uncalled for from someone who has no clue at all who I am on so many levels that while I made sure she knew she crossed more lines than a city skyline I realized what I should have said...sometimes a good "Fuck You" is in order. Normally I rise above but I wish I had a redo on that one and used the best 2 word reply the select few deserve. some people need full blast and lately I'm feeling it's time to start turning up the volume...